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Think about the gifts you buy

“To give someone a gift that was previously received someone else.” This is how Merriam-Webster defines the word regift. Some will tell you that this practice is no longer a social faux pas. Others revile it, denouncing those who participate in the practice.

Receiving gifts is always an exciting time for those who receive them. That is, until they open one that they have no clue what to do with. The look on their face is usually one of confusion. When they realize the gift buyer is staring at them, waiting for a response, they provide less than sincere smiles and thanks of gratitude and appreciation. All while already thinking, who can I give this to later?

Everyone loves receiving gifts and most love giving them. With that in mind, it could be surmised that more thought would be given when selecting gifts. The best gifts are those where the giver has given careful consideration as to the best gift to give. Somehow, people open boxes that contain cheap coffee makers, when they already own one. Or sweater that’s a color the person would never wear. Where do these gifts come from? Simple, they were already gifts!

One of the worst feelings that a gift buyer can feel goes even further however. Actually seeing that gift regifted. This has taken on a place in society. It is comical to some to see these gifts “make the rounds.” There are those special people who intentionally purchase gifts so horrendous, they know it will be regifted. They want to see just how many people will regift this special purchase until it finds an owner who will actually keep it and make personal use of it.

It is disappointing when you open a gift that you know you will never use. Often it is hurtful when the giver finds out the gift will be regifted. If you fall into one of these two categories, put more thought in when you buy gifts then, it is that simple.